How DolphinOlogists Deal With Love Drama
No matter what kind of lover one is challenged with, unless that lover is a high practicing Dolphinologist, or other kind of lucid dreamer, they will be dealing with someone who is referring to mind. Since a mind that cannot witness itself, is a collection of circuits formed from past moments of trauma and survival, it is inherently crazy. Mind itself is always crazy, unless one can witness it from afar. Therefor if we can recall, like a dolphin, during these times, that only restimulated past circuitry is playing out current dramas, then we can put ourselves into our Dolphin nature, not identify with our lovers mind, and allow the restimulated abandonment issues to play out as if watching our lover’s dream. When the dream has played out, then we can re-enter and converse with the lover’s spirit instead of their insanity.
Still re-stimulatable, the lover who is easily triggered will have gone through enough loss that their emotional state will have passed from grief to fear to anger to sarcasm and only then can the humor of the situation be absorbed and able to be witnessed from a distance. Since dolphins use sonar to feel the constriction of their lover’s organs, we can mimic this skill by asking, “how does that make you feel?” and the lover will tell us about their internal state and witness it for themselves. Upon detailing how they feel, if you ask again, “How does THAT make you feel?” You will watch them upon each consecutive pass, rise along the stages of loss as they witness their own mind. Then you can make a joke, make love, or fight it out realizing the drama as the insanity it is. You will have become a dolphin, perpetually smiling, because you maintain dual states of mind and dream.